Archive for Time Management
Time Management: How to deal with people who waste your time
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Watch the video below for a few tips on how to deal with people who waste your time.
Time is one of our most precious commodities and if you are working away at your dreams while doing your day job then you need to be very time efficient in everything that you do.
Time Management: Get more time by learning to say No
Posted by: | CommentsTime Management: Get more time by learning to say No
When I run time management workshops one that comes up in almost every training session is how to say “No” effectively.
If you can say No with confidence to activities that you shouldn’t be doing at work then that will free up your time so that you can get home earlier and thus have more time to work on your dreams and goals.
The short video below will give you some tips to help you get better at saying “No”.
Download my 6 Steps To Lead The Life You Want To Lead talk
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Just to let you know that, by popular demand, I have recorded my Six Steps To Lead The Life You Want To Lead talk and it is now available as a 1hr MP3 download. For more details click here. http://leadthelife.net/products/audio-training/
How to make time to achieve your dreams and goals
Posted by: | CommentsHow to make time to achieve your dreams and goals
This week I have prepared a video on some tips to help you find the time, alongside your day job and current responsibilities, to take action towards your personal dreams and goals.
How To Deal With Overwhelm – Part 3
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Mentally change how you look at your schedule
A few weeks ago I had a particularly busy week and the Thursday was a very long day which I was dreading. I was quite tired at the time and even though it was only Monday I was fretting about how I was going to get through the week, especially the Thursday. When you are overwhelmed it is very easy for future events and activities to prey on your mind even though they haven’t happened yet.
In order to make the week feel better instead of thinking of it as a very long and tortuous Monday to Friday I broke it up into two segments: Monday to Wednesday followed by Thursday to Friday. That way the busy Thursday no longer overshadowed the preceding days. When it arrived I got on and dealt with it as best I could and then it was over and done with.
When we are too busy we have to play tricks with our minds to relieve the mental burden of what is on our plate. In doing so we can reduce the stress that it causes which helps us to have enough physical energy to get on and do what has to be done.
Bonus Tip
While the three tips in this blog series will help you to reduce feeling of overwhelm when coping with your workload and juggling of other commitments there are times when may have to ruthlessly offload some of your obligations.
If you don’t have enough time to do the things you want then you have to find a way to stop doing some of the activities that you don’t really care for.
There may also be occasions when you take a complete break from an activity, however dear to your heart it may be, in order to give yourself sufficient time for rest and recuperation. While it is possible to burn the candle at both ends for a while your mental and physical health will suffer if you do it for too long.
When you have been able to take a proper break you will gain fresh perspective on your situation and may well find a more sustainable way of managing your work, family and other projects
How To Deal With Overwhelm – Part One
How To Deal With Overwhelm – Part Two
How To Deal With Overwhelm – Part 2
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Pretend you only have one thing to do
When there are too many urgent tasks in your day or your week, the thought of them stacking up in from of you can lead to stress and mental paralysis. You can end up getting nothing done or feel too tired and stressed about what lays ahead.
If it is not possible to offload some of these tasks then just pick one that needs doing now (if several need doing now still pick just one of them) and just say to yourself “All I have to do is this.” In doing this you are switching your outlook to one thing that is doable instead of focussing on an overwhelming list.
Whether it takes two minutes, two hours or two days, it is much easier to focus on getting one thing done and completing the task than worrying about everything else. When the first task is done then apply the same technique to the next item on your list – “All I have to do is this”.
Human beings respond better to success than to failure so being able to tick off just one task as completed from your list is better than doing random bits of several activities and never feeling that anything is finished.
You can also use this approach to manage different sections of your day. For example if you have to take the cat to the vet after work and then visit a sick relative you might feel so overwhelmed about what you have to fit into your evening that you are stressing out all day about it. However if you say to yourself “All I have to do is go to work” and then “All I have to do is go to the vet” and then “All I have to do is have a cup of tea with Aunty Mary” you can give your full attention to each of these activities without worrying about what follows.
How To Deal With Overwhelm – Part 1
How To Deal With Overwhelm – Part 3
How To Deal With Overwhelm – Part 1
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Focus on what you can do, not what you can’t
When you are overwhelmed by having too much to do it is easy to get distressed about other activities that you would love to do but just can’t get around to. Maybe you are very busy at work but you would like to spend some time on your own project such doing something creative or finding time for a hobby. Or maybe you have a lot of commitments this week and are panicking about how you will get enough time to exercise or see your family.
When this happens it is easy to focus on and get upset about what you can’t get done. You find yourself thinking or saying stuff like “I’d love to do that but I can’t because I haven’t got time” or “I really wish I could write more this week but I can’t because I haven’t got time”. Instead of getting stuck in the “not enough time = I can’t” pattern it is easier to think of what you can do.
OK, so you might not have enough time to commit to a weekly yoga class but you can do a few minutes of stretching when you get home from work before you start cooking dinner. Although you would love to write up a business plan for your new product ideas your client commitments mean that you can only write out some skeleton points but at least you can complete these in more detail in small chunks of time between appointments.
When you switch to an “I can” mindset from “I can’t” you will start to find little windows of time where you can do quick productive tasks. Even though it may not be as pleasing as having great swathes of time to do your project exactly as you wish, it is better to make progress in small increments albeit at a slower pace rather than get stressed and miserable at what doesn’t seem to be possible.
How To Deal With Overwhelm – Part Two
How To Deal With Overwhelm – Part Three
How to get things done if you need a deadline to get motivated
Posted by: | CommentsHow to Get Things Done If You Need a Deadline To Get Motivated
Yesterday I heard a brilliant tip if you are one of those people who only get things done if there is a deadline looming. Being motivated by deadlines is great because you know that you can pull a rabbit out of a hat at the eleventh hour. However the problem with this kind of motivation is that if there is no deadline on the horizon then you just can’t get started on your project and procrastination kicks in.
To solve this problem you need to create artificial deadlines so that you have milestones to work towards with your tasks or projects. And then you need to communicate those artificial deadlines to a friend or group of people so that they hold you accountable to the date and your deadline is now real.
With this approach you can beat procrastination, always move forwards with your chosen activities and probably get more done than just waiting around for the final deadline.
How to stop being stressed when you have too much going on
Posted by: | CommentsHow to Stop Being Stressed When You Have Too Much Going On
For the last few months my life has been very busy. I have been trying to sell my London flat, publish a book, launch it and do all the other things required by my daily life. Not knowing when I’m going to move has also added the difficult dimension of not being able to make solid plans for things like holidays or ensuring that my work commitments fit with the geography of my new home. Throughout this time I have often felt stressed and overwhelmed.
There is a silver lining in every cloud and in spite of this stress I have come up with a time management method that has proved very effective. Every Sunday I give a few minutes thought to the week ahead and I decide upon three things that I would like to achieve that week. Examples of these are: decide on a web designer for the website for my book, contact solicitor about changes to the lease of the flat and find out how one of my friends launched her book. This week my goals are to sort out the book launch evening, see if it is possible to establish a timetable for completing on my flat sale and starting thinking about PR for the book.
Time Management Tip – Halve Your Emails
Posted by: | CommentsTime Management Tip – Halve Your Emails
Are you one of those people that get over a hundred emails a day? Probably most of them aren’t that important but you have to plough through them anyway just to make sure that you are not missing anything vital.
Did you know that in Outlook it is possible to separate out the emails that you are CC’ed so that your Inbox can then contain just the emails that are sent directly to you?
You will need to set up a separate folder for the CC’ed mail then go to
Tools > Rules and Alerts in the menu where you can set up a rule so that all mail where you are CC’ed on it goes to the separate folder.
This may substantially reduce the traffic coming through your Inbox. You can then schedule time when you are less busy to have a quick look at the CC’ed mail – or you may decide just to delete these messages!
